Nash Is Right: Be a “Dangerous Man”

I realize I’ve been sitting on my laurels more or less. Part of that is due to either having oversatiation from porn/video games or recovering from a porn-orgasm-masturbation addiction with the help of Mark Queppet (and not wanting to distract myself from the (game and non-game) inner work by chasing skirt) (self-reminder that I should write a post about this).
But taking a little bit of action is much more galvanizing than waiting for the “right” moment to take major action before taking any action (I will note to post about this too). As an example of this, I found that shirking my homework today to pick up a necklace and reading some daygame stuff (including some inspiring stuff for beginners from Dating Architect) allowed me to break through some of my personal inhibitions to just going out and approaching. This was also helped by hearing a fellow pickup artist I discovered recently recount how he approaches almost all girls once he leaves his home (if that’s true, I’d pin him at more than the number of approaches he estimated his experience to be).

At this point in the article I would apologize for the tangentiality in my sentences (i.e. having so many parenthetical phrases), but perhaps I can sell it to you my reader as practice for understanding girls. I’d also like to highlight my attempts to be like RedQuest in having more links in this post than a TVTropes article. But anyway, moving on!

Here’s the meat and potatoes: reading Nash’s blog is like living a dream; a common thread in his blog posts involve him positioning himself as someone sexually dangerous, wolfish, predatory, but with just enough civility to hold back in public. Most successful players I’ve seen have similar threads about taking the lead and being strong men with a distinct “edge”. That’s a significant part of what I think distinguishes a player from being “boyfriend material” or even “beta”, in a girl’s eyes. Does it seem like an adventurous time, where she can ride the fantasy-line between “falling into his trap” and “barely escaping unflowered”? Or does this guy seem like a boring dude just trying to get lucky?

Honestly, I’m worried about whether or not I’ll be able to become as leader-like and “dangerous” as Nash is. He’s a superb example, living the life so many of us young guys dream (and play erotic video games) about. But today I got a solid reference experience that gives me hope. And I have the inspiration from reading so many of his blogs that I want to make one happen while I’ve got the idea blender swirling on high gear.

After seeking rejection to add to my pile (but not recording any of it yet; I will truly “get serious” late this April) before and in the cafeteria, I sat down with a simple, smart but modestly-dressed girl to eat a salad. I didn’t open with a compliment but quickly followed with one, embracing the idea of being a “player” and shooting as many shots as I could, as a brief flick of her eyes indicated interest in this new imposing guy who just sat across from her. We chatted about some various things, boring things, I forget most of it but distinctly recall the spark of awe and interest when I said something along the lines of being a “dangerous man.” Maybe I can be a dangerous man. She lingered at the end of our interaction when she mentioned she had to go for groceries, but I got sidetracked in the conversation (should have gotten the number, but I wasn’t super interested in her anyway).

And you, the one reading this blog, if you aren’t yet a “dangerous man,” let it stew in you. Let the idea dwell until you read enough and hear enough and see enough and get frustrated enough to act, to decide to take on the “dangerous man” persona and be the kind of men that make women’s underclothes damp from expectation.

Mostly unrelated, but here’s another interesting bit that Nash says:

I will talk about my Kiss Close. It’s not particularly complicated – I just step in and kiss her. I try to do it on every first date, often in the middle of the date. I have recommended this to other guys. I say that even when the kiss is rejected, that it is a form of “communication” that makes it clear I’m not a “friend.” It sets up sexual expectations. Once I have already made a sexual move, if she comes out again, she knows what to expect.

I say all this. I believe it. I still like that strategy, and yet… it’s a little crude. I can see that too.

https://daysofgame.com/theory/hello-motherfckers-satori-pua-daygame-decoded-review/

I’ll be thinking about this point for a while. It goes hand-in-hand with the “dangerous man” thing.

Again inspired by Nash, let’s add a closing line to these blog posts. I think a fitting one is:
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